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Part 3: Why do your guests matter?
This is the third in a series on how to write an Inviting Invitation. Parts I (Lead With Your Location) and II (State Your Purpose Please) have been posted on the previous two days in the category "Inviting Invitations."
Part III: WHY DO YOUR GUESTS MATTER?
A third element to consider is "Why are you inviting guests?" What is it about having others at your marriage ceremony that is important to you?
A poetically paraphrased version of your answers to these questions will enhance your invitation by making your guests feel special because you've actually identified why their presence matters so much to you. It doesn't have to be complicated, as you will see below. A few words can go a long way toward making your message distinct.
My "sample couple" told me that they absolutely "cherish" the friends and family who were being invited, and that having them present for their exchange of vows is actually what would make their wedding day the most "joyful" for them.
The result follows (see words in bold):
There's a place on Earth
1,000 feet above the neighboring sea
where we will gather in the garden of a beloved friend,
next to a grove of Olive trees for good luck,
and among those whom we most cherish.
There,
we will make sacred vows of commitment
in a ceremony intended to
strengthen our experience of life as partners
and our belief in the tradition of family.
Joy-filled we'd be if you will join us.
Saturday, May 10, 2005 at Noon
at the home of Marc Rhodell
101 Cliff View Road
Malibu, California
State Your Purpose Please
This is the second post in a series of of how, specifically, to cultivate content for writing a creative invitation.
Yesterday's post: Lead With Your Location
is followed here by: State Your Purpose Please
Another means for coming up with unique wording for your wedding invite is to include the PURPOSE of your marriage ceremony. This might seem obvious, but I know from experience that if we put 10 couples in a room and ask them each "Why are you getting married," we will hear 10 different answers. Consider this question for yourself. And here are are some other questions to help you get to you personal perspective.
1. What is it about getting marriage that appeals to you?
2. What will it do for your partnership?
3. What guiding principle or belief do you hold that is informing your choice to become married?
The couple who's invitation I use below stated that they wanted to become married to "strengthen our experience of life as partners and our belief in the tradition of family."
We added this phrase to the beautiful description of their location to create their personalized invitation:
There's a place on Earth
1,000 feet above the neighboring sea
where we will gather in the garden of a beloved friend,
next to a grove of Olive trees for good luck,
and among those whom we most cherish.
There,
we will make sacred vows of commitment
in a ceremony intended to
strengthen our experience of life as partners
and our belief in the tradition of family.
Joy-filled we'd be if you will join us.
Saturday, May 10, 2005 at Noon
at the home of Marc Rhodell
101 Cliff View Road
Malibu, California
Lead With Your Location
I frequently get inquiries like this one:
"Can you write something about wedding invitation wording? Many people seem to leave it to the last minute and lose the chance to do something creative..."
Here's some direction, followed by a previously-posted example. (And p.s., it can be done at the last minute and STILL be creative.)
Lead with your LOCATION.
Using the location as the lead into your invitation will establish set the setting for your wedding even before the guests arrive. Most locations are chosen because they have some magical feeling for the marrying couple. Think about what it is that makes your location of choice magical, meaningful, significant to you. Make a list of those characteristics.
Here are some questions that may help you:
1. What does your location look like?
2. How does it make you feel when you imagine yourself standing in the very spot you will stand to take your vows? (Safe? Held in the arms of God? Full of life? Joyful because there's nothing more that I love than being in a garden full of flowers? Excited because I'll be standing on the edge of a cliff overlooking the expanse of the blue sea below? etc.)
3. How did you know that "this" was the place to get married?
4. Have you been here for any other special milestone in your life? (It's the house where I grew up. We got engaged here. My mother and her mother both were married here...)
Now, convey these points in the writing of your invitation. It will make the invitation so much more alluring and unique. Traditional wording is fine for very classic, traditional weddings. But if you've dedicated large quantities of time (and money) to the choice of your location and other elements that will set the stage for the particular kind of magic you want to experience on your wedding day, then use your invitation as a means of saying "welcome" in a way that invites your guests to step onto your magic carpet for a ride unlike any they've ever experienced before.
Sample Invitation using "location" as the lead...
There's a place on Earth
1,000 feet above the neighboring sea
where we will gather in the garden of a beloved friend,
next to a grove of Olive trees for good luck,
and among those whom we most cherish.
There,
we will make sacred vows of commitment
in a ceremony intended to
strengthen our experience of life as partners
and our belief in the tradition of family.
Joy-filled we'd be if you will join us.
Saturday, May 10, 2005 at Noon
at the home of Marc Rhodell
101 Cliff View Road
Malibu, California
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